I’ve found that one way of coping with lock-down is to develop a few little daily rituals that mark the various stages of the day. I think a lot of us suddenly have a lot more time than usual on our hands. We’re also driven to appreciate the small things in life, because life has contracted to the precincts of our own homes for many of us.
While we all wish, for many reasons, that things weren’t as they currently are in the world, there is something to be said for appreciating things that are right in front of us. For me, developing a few daily rituals connected to these small things has been a way of seeing some positives in the situation. I’m naturally an optimist, so I always tend to look for the good!
So here are some of the things I’ve started doing on a day to day basis that have helped to lift our lock-in time:
- Early morning garden visits
I’m definitely a morning person, so getting up early has never been difficult for me. Usually I’m rushing off to work without even having breakfast, but lately, as I’ve been working from home, and as the weather has been so nice, I’ve started popping out to the garden in between breakfast and starting work in the mornings. I just head out and stand there for about 10 minutes, checking on the progress of the plants and generally enjoying the early morning light, quiet and freshness.
2. Mid-morning coffee
My working days when I’m physically at work can be quite busy, often with unexpected inquiries popping up throughout the day. In many ways, I thrive on that. However working at home does mean that my working day is slightly more predictable, allowing me to schedule in time for coffee and a biscuit (just for 10 minutes) at around 11am. It’s important to take regular screen breaks, something which I’m guilty of neglecting normally. I know it’s just a cup of coffee, but I really look forward to that mid-morning break.
3. Drawing the curtains
Ok, this one really is a bit bonkers. Ordinarily, we don’t much bother with drawing the curtains in our flat. Only one of our rooms faces out on the street, and we usually draw those curtains, and of course our bedroom curtains before going to sleep each night. In the last few days I’ve taken to going around the flat and drawing all the curtains, including the rooms which face out on to gardens etc. I don’t know why, but doing this makes me really happy. I think it’s something to do with sealing off our private domain for the night, and a way of marking the end of another day.
4. Cake of the week
Like many people, regular baking has become a way to pass the time in lock-down. I’ve heard that a surge in home-baking during lock down has resulted in shortages of flour and other basics here in the UK. I certainly struggled to stock up on baking necesseties for a while a couple of weeks ago. Thankfully we’ve been able to get our mitts on some flour now, so it’s cake-ahoy. So far we’ve had fruit cake twice, Simnel (in honour of Easter) and Victoria Sponge. I’m thinking of doing scones and maybe cinnamon whirls this weekend.
5. TV time
A lot of people find this odd, but I actually don’t watch TV. At all really. My other half and I are big film fans, so at weekends we usually curl up together on the sofa with rented films. Don’t get me wrong, I do have TV shows that I love, but I don’t actually watch them on TV. I tend to stream or buy blu-rays and then watch at my convenience. Somehow the thought of having to be in front of the TV at the same time each week to watch something that’s scheduled to air seems like way too much commitment for me. So I’ve always squeezed my TV watching into Sunday afternoons. Working from home and skipping the commute however means that I have about an hour free between the end of my working day and the time when I normally start making our evening meal. So I’ve started fitting in an hour of whatever show I am working my way through in that time. I found it weirdly comforting to be able to sit and watch and old BBC period drama in that hour, especially in the first couple of weeks of lock-down. I’d go so far as to say it was the only time during the day when I felt ‘normal’, probably because watching an old drama brought back memories of our old ‘normal’.
How are you coping with lock-down and have you developed any little rituals of your own?